The lover who matches with you perfectly is not naturally produced. That you can love at first sight does not mean that  you can get along with each other  harmoniously . But  getting along with each other well is not necessarily loyal to another.... Truly   match perfectly between lovers is all the result of  grinding with each other . You changed  a little, he changed a little,  although we all lose something  a little respectively  , we can become a pair of lovers that are  tacit understanding  . Love and get along are two different things. To love is to attract, and to get along with each other is to change you yourself  for the other..

跟你絕配的lover，並不是天然產生的。你能一見鍾情的，並不代表會相處融洽。相處融洽的，不一定會忠心耿耿。真正絕配的lovers，其實都靠打磨。你改一點，他改一點，雖然大家都失去點自我，卻可以成為默契的一對。相愛和相處是兩回事。相愛是吸引，而相處是為對方而改變。