why must go to control her man?

As long as we women can manage ourselves very well , which  is a great act . why must  go to control her man? Obedient men do not need your control, disobedient men can not be controlled by you. You do not have to control the  man  who focuses on  you. The man who does not focus on you will not let you control, The man who loves you deeply need not your control.  The man who does not love you is not your duty to control.