A really strong person,...

A really strong person does  not spend too much thought pleasing  and pro-attaching others. The important is to improve your own capabilities. Only enhance your own good practice, and the others will pro-attaching you . If you are the Indus, the Phoenix will come to your place to roost ;  If you are the sea, rivers will come into it.

一個真正強大的人，不會把太多心思花在取悅和親附別人身上。重要的是要提高自己的能力。只有自己修煉好了，才會有別人來親附。自己是梧桐，鳳凰才會來棲；自己是大海，百川才會來歸。