Woman in love should be like a magnetic field, not play a role  of a rope, tying her man; she'd better  attract him. A rope of love may  let men have the desire to break free, but a magnetic field can give the man the illusion of freedom,  an eternal temptation as well.女人在愛情裡應該像一個磁場，而不應該扮成一條繩子，捆著男人。你倒不如去吸引男人。一條繩子會讓男人有掙脫的欲望，而一個磁場卻能给男人自由的假相，和一個永恆的誘惑。by Elizabeth

the afternoon tea party