Where does women's self-confidence come from?

Where does women's self-confidence come from? It does not come from a man's love, not your qualifications. But from your financial freedom ,from the world you've  seen, from your various experiences. Women who rely on men  can live well in their family lives, but they can not live in a sense of security. The greatest sense of security must have their own power. So, internally and externally, inner strength, pockets full of cash, they are  the woman's real needs and happiness.